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 Unhinged (original poster member #47977) posted at 2:18 AM on Thursday, December 4th, 2025

Desiderata
By Max Ehrmann

"Go placidly amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons.

Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story.

Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexatious to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter, for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.

Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.

Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment, it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth.

Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.

Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here.

And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be. And whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul. With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy."

by Max Ehrmann ©1927

[This message edited by Unhinged at 3:42 AM, Friday, December 5th]

Married 2005
D-Day April, 2015
Divorced May, 2022

"The Universe is not short on wake-up calls. We're just quick to hit the snooze button." -Brene Brown

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Want2BHappyAgain ( member #45088) posted at 1:57 PM on Thursday, December 4th, 2025

Very nice Lil Bro...thanks for sharing grin !

I remember wanting so badly to just be HAPPY again...so that is what I put as my username when I came on here.

It wasn't until a few years after I had been on here though that I realized it was PEACE that I was actually searching for smile . I could be happy for a little while...but it wouldn't last...until I found peace. Once I got to a place of peace...happiness came naturally smile . So now I know how to strive to be happy...by getting to a place of PEACE smile .

A "perfect marriage" is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.

With God ALL things are possible (Matthew 19:26)

I AM happy again...It CAN happen!!!

From respect comes great love...sassylee

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KitchenDepth5551 ( member #83934) posted at 12:53 AM on Friday, December 5th, 2025

Thank you for posting this. It's a nice read. I appreciate the upbeat message.

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NoThanksForTheMemories ( member #83278) posted at 1:33 AM on Friday, December 5th, 2025

Thank you sharing these timeless words of wisdom.

"Neither be cynical about love" - struggling a lot with this one lately.

WS had a 3 yr EA+PA from 2020-2022, and an EA 10 years ago (different AP). Dday1 Nov 2022. Dday4 Sep 2023. False R for 2.5 months. 30 years together. Divorcing.

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