17 years later, a new D-Day. Completely broken.
He’s done it again, this time with someone I have questioned him over and over about over the last 8 years and he’s adamantly denied everything. We no longer live together. I found out through my adult child, he was careless and she found out. I’m supposed to meet with him tomorrow - he hasn’t spoken to me at all since she confronted him. I don’t want to see him. I want to text him and just basically say I’m filing for divorce and have nothing to say to him, not do I care what he has to say. Emotionally I can’t handle an in-person meeting. How can I word the text without tipping my cards? I’m paying the retainer for a lawyer on Monday.
2 comments posted: Sunday, May 17th, 2026
Back after 5 years, out of practice, need suggestions
I haven't posted here in years, I thought things were back to "normal", or what is now our new normal. Then he gets back from an overnight trip for work and my spidey-senses start going into overdrive. Nothing happened while he was gone to make me suspect, only after he got back. He was a total jerk last night. So this morning I check his texts online and he got a picture message at midnight last night (11:59 PM according to Verizon). So dig deeper, that number and him exchanged 5 or 6 texts (starting before he got home, stopped after he got home) I look up the number on his cloud online, it's a woman he sometimes has dealings with for work - she was not on the trip. Last texts with her were in June when I know they had work dealings. I'm not going to ask him because I want to gather more information. Where do I go from here?!?
2 comments posted: Tuesday, August 9th, 2016
