Topic is Sleeping.
Theevent (original poster member #85259) posted at 11:24 PM on Thursday, July 17th, 2025
Came across a song on you tube "How numb I feel - sad song" look it up.
It really hits home with how I've felt the last year after my wife's betrayal. I'm guessing it will hit him for many of us.
The lyrics are very poetic and strangely accurate to our situation.
Me - BH, age 42
Her - WW, age 40
EA 1/2023, PA 7/2023 - 6/2024
D-day 4/2024 (Married 18 years at that time)
Theevent (original poster member #85259) posted at 11:43 PM on Thursday, July 17th, 2025
And for those trying to reconcile this song hits home for me:
"I choose you - a love that defies time"
Me - BH, age 42
Her - WW, age 40
EA 1/2023, PA 7/2023 - 6/2024
D-day 4/2024 (Married 18 years at that time)
Asterisk ( member #86331) posted at 7:38 PM on Friday, July 18th, 2025
Holy smokes, Thanks TheeVent
For sharing this powerful work of song art. Hits home to an old me that the new me will never forget the feelings I silently held post D-day.
Wedding:1973
WW's Affair: 1986-1988
D-Day: June 1991
Reconciliation in process for 32 years
Living in a marriage and with a wife that I am proud of: 52 years
Topic is Sleeping.
