Dorothy123 (original poster member #53116) posted at 8:04 PM on Sunday, July 20th, 2025
To affair proof your M the faithful needs to learn how to please their spouses.
The faithful must learn to have sex like a porn star.
The faithful must learn to anticipate and meet every single need their spouses may have.
If the faithful is not being a super spouse in every way , shape and form needs were not being met!
Then, the faithful had it coming !
"I’ll get you my pretty, and your little dog too!" Wicked Witch of the West.
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 11:25 PM on Sunday, July 20th, 2025
Every cheater will certainly agree with you!
My H tried to say "we were disconnected" as his excuse for cheating. I’m certain after I exploded in reaction to that he was very sorry he ever said it.
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 12 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 3:03 PM on Monday, July 21st, 2025
If the BS actually did what you're recommending, the WS would just say, 'You are too perfect. Poor me. I just can't measure up, so I had to cheat.'
[This message edited by SI Staff at 3:04 PM, Monday, July 21st]
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
Shehawk ( member #68741) posted at 3:46 PM on Monday, July 21st, 2025
Stay well 😢
Sadly if you are female and you don’t want your H who has the underlying cheater propensity to cheat, you need to stay well. I think the actual statistics are they "leave" but since men tend to not remain unpartnered, it’s pretty much the same thing
"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!
Dorothy123 (original poster member #53116) posted at 8:15 PM on Tuesday, July 22nd, 2025
I can imagine a commercial to sell affair proofing books and videos
" Would you like to learn the secrets of affair proofing your marriage?
Buy these books and videos and learn how to please your spouses.
If you , the faithful, don't learn to please your spouses and meet their needs, your spouses will get their needs discreetly met else where.
Please call now and don't wait till your spouses cheat on you. "
[This message edited by Dorothy123 at 8:23 PM, Tuesday, July 22nd]
"I’ll get you my pretty, and your little dog too!" Wicked Witch of the West.
Copingmybest ( member #78962) posted at 11:43 AM on Wednesday, July 23rd, 2025
Oh Dorothy, always love me some good sarcasm. That one hit the nail on the head!
