Gemmy (original poster member #86765) posted at 11:15 PM on Tuesday, July 7th, 2026
I certainly do not hate you, I do not know you. I commend your strength right now, it must be awfully hard to come here.
Betrayed but trying to stand for the family. ME: 45 M DDay Oct.18 2025- April 2026 Two LTA EA/PA first 2 years second 1 year - 14 years apart.
Pleasehelpmebebetter ( member #84706) posted at 12:52 AM on Wednesday, July 8th, 2026
Thank you for being kind. I am sorry you are in so much pain. I hope you can find the peace and joy you deserve.
Theevent ( member #85259) posted at 1:01 AM on Wednesday, July 8th, 2026
Pleasehelpmebebetter
I dont hate you. I don't even know you.
Most of us here hate what our spouses did to us. We hate the betrayal.
Maybe some of us hate our spouses. I certainly don't hate my wife, despite what she did.
I also think it takes a lot of bravery to come here amidst all of these intensely negative emotions and perceived judgment.
My wife hasn't found the courage you have unfortunately.
Me - BH, age 42
Her - WW, age 40
EA 1/2023, PA 7/2023 - 6/2024
D-day 4/2024 (Married 18 years at that time)
